Quote of the Day

"To advise is not to compel." - Anton Chekhov

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Quote of the Day:

"To advise is not to compel." - Anton Chekhov
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It's a strange thing when it comes to advising. I know, personally, that when someone tries to bring about (something) by the use of force or pressure I have a tendency to go against what ever force or pressure may be. 

Even when I try to bring about something from with in myself,
by the use of force or pressure, I'm likely to subconsciously fight against it too.

Like trying to push a square peg that's just a bit too big through a round hole that's just a bit too small.

Or a key in a lock that doesn't quite match up.

So in my opinion, when giving advise, it's best to ask questions. Find out peoples goals. #Listen. Help them find the right key that unlocks the door to their goals. Help by giving them the sand paper that rounds out the edges of their square peg